StyleSpy with Katrina Szish

MUST. HAVE. THIS. CLUTCH.

Yes, yes -- skulls have become a smidge overexposed in the past few years but no matter.  I have been a staunch supporter of the icon long before it hit It-item status, and I will remain one long after the trend dies.  To me, the symbol represents strength, power, and the desire to live life to the fullest.

Without fail, every time I sport a skull piece people get a huge kick out of asking me if I'm a pirate.  Um, that would be a no.  Some have even bellowed, "ARRRRGH." 

I'm not a Goth Girl, a headbanger, or a Harley chick, therefore the shock value of pairing this edgy image with a gorgeous evening gown, a conservative cashmere sweater or a ladylike blouse is priceless.

Besides a slew of Paul Frank Skurvy items (including flannel PJs, metal drawer pulls and an autographed pink skateboard), I've collected cufflinks from Paul Smith, hats and totes and tuxedo studs from Ralph Lauren, vinyl toys from Asia, band-aids, Hello Kitty skull socks from Anna Sui, fine jewelry, porcelain plates, and custom-made lingerie.  I even have a skull-and-bones tattoo on the inside of my left wrist.  Seriously.

I tend to like my skulls simple -- no protruding eyeballs, mean grimaces or shimmering embellishments.

However, since this decadent and dangerous little Alexander McQueen gem exemplifies that brilliant juxtaposition of luxe and louche, I'm making an exception.

Alexander McQueen clutch, $1,010 at Net-A-Porter.com

Images from Net-A-Porter.com